“You are my soulmate”, I’ve heard this so, so many times during my life . Sometimes it makes me cringe, knowing that I don’t feel the same and that it’s not accurate. I feel bad hearing it because I know that the other person would soon realize that he/she was mistaken or, even worse, would live the entire life with that thought, even though I might not be around anymore. Other times it does ring a bell and it makes me feel like “I’m sure we’ve met in another life but let’s not over react”. In both occasions I smile back politely, not knowing what to say. Speaking my truth would crush someone’s feelings and that’s not a thing I would like to do.
I can’t know for sure but I’m guessing that I’ll be able to recognize my soulmate when I’ll meet him. Even though the word “soulmate” is such a vast term in the spiritual meaning I don’t know a better one to describe “the person that’s going to be next to me until the end of my days in this life”.
And now I wonder, how come all these many people said that to me? I know I create a special and strong bond with everyone that is in my life, no matter the type of the relationship that we are having or the length of it. I can feel that it’s meant to be and that we are learning together, I can feel so familiar with a person that I’ve just met, I can fall in love full of passion but that still doesn’t feel like anything that I imagine regarding a soulmate relationship. What makes them say that and be so sure of it?
How could I explain to someone that I think we both are part of the same soul group/family instead of being soulmates without making them feel unloved? Is that a truth I would like to hear if I was them? I don’t have an answer to that…
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