“You are my soulmate”, I’ve heard this so, so many times during my life . Sometimes it makes me cringe, knowing that I don’t feel the same and that it’s not accurate. I feel bad hearing it because I know that the other person would soon realize that he/she was mistaken or, even worse, would live the entire life with that thought, even though I might not be around anymore. Other times it does ring a bell and it makes me feel like “I’m sure we’ve met in another life but let’s not over react”. In both occasions I smile back politely, not knowing what to say. Speaking my truth would crush someone’s feelings and that’s not a thing I would like to do.
I can’t know for sure but I’m guessing that I’ll be able to recognize my soulmate when I’ll meet him. Even though the word “soulmate” is such a vast term in the spiritual meaning I don’t know a better one to describe “the person that’s going to be next to me until the end of my days in this life”.
And now I wonder, how come all these many people said that to me? I know I create a special and strong bond with everyone that is in my life, no matter the type of the relationship that we are having or the length of it. I can feel that it’s meant to be and that we are learning together, I can feel so familiar with a person that I’ve just met, I can fall in love full of passion but that still doesn’t feel like anything that I imagine regarding a soulmate relationship. What makes them say that and be so sure of it?
How could I explain to someone that I think we both are part of the same soul group/family instead of being soulmates without making them feel unloved? Is that a truth I would like to hear if I was them? I don’t have an answer to that…
Feel loved and spread love! ❤️
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August 7, 2017 at 12:11 am
I should have thought people would be glad to think we are all connected in that way, but then again, I get your point, sometimes a person wants something more specific, which in my opinion, is after all a recognition of the former, rather than different from the later, if you catch my drift?
I just mean we are all connected, and its the degree of connection which is exciting and invigorating enough to categorise as super special and magical, rather than just “yah, ok” or “I get that – but . . . ” Its confusing sometimes too because sometimes connections are powerful yet fleeting, while others may be more reliable and yet deep and trustworthy 🙂 Xx
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August 7, 2017 at 6:17 am
Hello there!! You have an awesome blog, so I have nominated you for the Blogger Recognition Award! Here is the link to the post: https://freespiritedness.net/2017/08/07/blogger-recognition-award/
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August 7, 2017 at 9:43 am
Thank you Amber 🙏🏻
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August 7, 2017 at 9:46 am
I totally agree that we are all connected and that each relationship is magical but so far, most of the people that were saying I am their soulmates wanted promises, they wanted me to assure them that we will get married one day and have kids and live happily ever after. They also say it as a fact, being so sure that I’m the one. Those are the “soulmates” that make me wonder how come they can feel something that I can’t. Thank you for your comment. Have an amazing day
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August 27, 2017 at 1:17 am
Beautifully put.
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