I’ve been noticing another pattern that has followed me my entire life and I’m wondering what’s about it? What’s for me to learn from it? Is there anything to learn or should I just acknowledge and accept it as being something natural? It’s a pattern that’s making me wonder if I’m missing something, if I should change my ways or avoid the people creating it.
This time the story is repeating itself with person number 3. I’ve noticed that people are maybe scared of too much honesty. I’m the type that’s open about feelings and thoughts and I like to think that I don’t have problems expressing them (most of the times). If I want something, I’ll tell you exactly what I want. If I feel something, you’ll sure know. If I miss you I’ll want to see you. If I don’t feel like seeing you I will be honest and tell you I’m not in the mood to go out. If you are doing something that’s bothering me I’ll tell you I’m not ok with it. And so on…It’s as easy as that.
Now the pattern that I’m talking about goes like this: when I’m honest and open about what I feel and think with someone that person would see it as a weakness and most probably take advantage of it. They wouldn’t necessarily run but they would take it for granted and not appreciate it. At the same time I rarely get the same thing in return, someone that is emotionally grown up and can talk about deep stuff. The deeper I go the more superficial the others become. How frustrating is that?! And when I give up and decide it’s better for me to interrupt contact with that person or when I stop sharing everything without getting anything in return they always come back running. It’s like a switch that’s off and goes on when I become colder.
I wonder why do people react like this to something as simple as honesty. Is it that hard to accept it? Is this the way that I’m going to learn the patience lesson? It’s getting so confusing and I could really use some help from my guides. But they are silent this time, the only thing they say is patience. Ok, but what about meanwhile?
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December 18, 2016 at 6:34 pm
Maria and I had and still have this pattern. We’ve found that as we go round and round the spiral it’s less a problem and more a way of sensing who is worthy and who still needs to grow. You deserve truth and if they can’t handle it, or reciprocate, they’re still lying to themselves and can’t give you what you ask or rose to your vibration, they haven’t yet gone through the work load to shine light o on their shadows. . But you become this beacon of truth, this honest mirror and it’s like they will love you and hate you all at once. It’s many lessons all at once but I’ve found that if you ask your guides to send you honest open people to mingle with, they will do so. Sometimes it takes a while but as you make that your goal, the others will fall away. I know that people lingered in my life until I learned that there was no going back for me, that I no longer wanted to fit in, or talk about anything but the truth of my heart no matter what it happened to be. So, yes a pattern, and yes a lesson, but also an opportunity. You’re changing and growing and it’s not just those people it’s that characteristic. Bye bye surface dwellers lol.
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December 18, 2016 at 11:30 pm
This is so helpful, finally a bit of insight on this topic from someone else. I’ve been trying to figure it out by myself for too long. I will definitely ask my guides to send me only the people that match my vibration and that are honest and open about everything. Thank you for sharing this and for the tip! Much appreciated! ❤ like you’ve said: bye bye surface dwellers indeed!
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